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Post by SwordMasterEX on Feb 18, 2014 23:10:16 GMT -6
I had to edit. Plus I'm watching a movie with the family.
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Post by Golurkcanfly on Feb 18, 2014 23:12:46 GMT -6
But a da PearlXArcturusXElia fanfic writers need more fuel!
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Post by SwordMasterEX on Feb 18, 2014 23:20:07 GMT -6
And now the Rhea's lanceXArcturus' behind shippers can make doujins.
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Post by SwordMasterEX on Feb 19, 2014 4:53:18 GMT -6
But I'm no longer religious and the sacrament doesn't apply to me. But seeing as I am a silly idealistic who only sees rainbows and sunshine and not all the corruption and atrocities committed on a daily basis nor the sheer apathy that let's it carry on nor the system which leaves a drastic gap between rich and poor, and power struggles that oppress the masses like a fictional book nor the money which gives them said control. You know it's not just tradition that keeps things going. People can honestly fall in love and vow to support each other for life in sincerity. And believe that this union is sanctioned by a higher power, and that's an amazing experience. And then those people can change. That is the nature of our universe, changing faces and keeping the same cycle, but don't let my upbeat vibe get you up from the hole you think life is digging you. Personal experience is everything that shapes us baby , and if you want to s*** on an image of weddings and call that your review well then more power to you. After all I like you. I think you're great. Better than you think you are and more potential than me. I love how you can simultaneously put yourself down and try to encourage others - there's no need for it, you don't know what your potential is until you reach it, so quit your hypocrisy. You're great, I'm great, everyone's bloody great. We're lucky enough to be born into the most amazing species, in one of the most amazing periods in history, where discovery and achievement outpace thousands of years of previous expansion. Don't put yourself down just to boost me. I don't need it. I know what I can do - I can change the face of the world, given the time and circumstance. So can you. I'm not trying to s*** on marriage or dig for sympathy. Just giving my honest reasons for not trusting marriage, or at least thinking something about its system needs to be changed. My parents are seeing new people now, and sometimes I tell myself it's foolish, but I really do understand. I know what it feels like to want somebody who I can pursue a relationship with, but at the same time I know that it wouldn't last. I'm a guy who likes his privacy, and I know that of I woke up next to the same person every day, facing every hardship together... I'd probably just wind up resenting that person. I just can't help but see the world around me, where fathers are denied the right to see their kids*, men and women are left without a home, couples fight bitterly and ruin their kids and think it's hopeless, naive even. But I know people will keep trying anyway, and I have no desire to stop it. I just have no desire to participate either. Not until it's changed and I can participate on my own terms. Seriously, though, what is sleep? I think I'm starting to hallucinate... *Not that this applies to my family. I was 17 when the divorce happened, my sister 22. So there was no need for custody hearings or child support, still a s****y situation, from what I've seen in other people's lives. First of all let's get one thing straight sweetheart, while this may be the most advanced we have ever been in the sciences and understanding the structure of our history, it's also the most polluted the earth's been, the most resources we have ever competed for, the most danger it's been in after the nuclear arms race, the most health problems we have ever recorded in recent years (and though this is mostly the result of a lack of knowledge on our ancestors part it is also due to newly manufactured hazards and the constant evolution of certain viruses and bacteria and an ever growing population as well as global communications), and the most commercialized. Having everything be conveniently available has a price. To change the face of the world would require a hell of a lot more than potential, so don't feed me that you can be anything and everything line. I get that enough from my mom. But I understand my station in life as well as my available tools enough to know that the doors to the high life won't just open for me without incredible luck. Luckily for me I'm easily satisfied and care not for money as evidence by my frivolous spending habits whenever I get some spare dough. And to further exemplify that optimism, the solution to the pollution problem exist, as well as peace, as well as further understanding our bodies and how diseases affect them, as well as not summing up people to commodities and statistics. But none of that happens until many factors come into play, which I believe we are capable of. We are capable of saying, "No" to systems that try to marginalize us into profits and going our own path, hence why I can say "Well f*** your standards and policy it's my choice" and celebrate a day like Valentine's day without care. So yes some systems do need a change, but consider the other side of the coin. Divorce is now cheaper for the lower to middle class, arranged marriages are less prominent and thus less obligation to stay together, women have more rights (Which can be interpreted many ways, I like most young people, see it as good), and marriage in of itself is no longer viewed as a religious sacrament, but as a societal norm. It's definitely not what it used to be. Also consider this, those 50% of divorces, are all people in a circumstance they wish to change. It is not just an abstract number, it's a representation of people who may want a separation for any number of reasons, which can be both good and bad depending on perspective. And what you describe is the worst of it (Well it could be worse, but isolated incidents are isolated for a reason). Sometimes those are justifiable like if the father is a pedophile or there are mental health issues or finances were better off separate, but do to terrible and outdated tax codes had to be put together. The world encompasses more than just that, there's also happy families who stick together, and civil divorces where the people remain friends and kids who turn their negative energy into something positive. Yeah there's a lot of scumbags and b****** who ruin each others lives and create more issues than a kid should ever have, but that is not all there is to see. Now my parents may still be together, but I've seen so many rocky marriages and divorces in the family it should of brought down my expectations if not outright killed them, but it hasn't. Also, Also, who spends every second of every day with the same person? Just cause someone is your spouse doesn't mean you smother each other until the fiery passions burn a hole in between you two, it means there's someone to care when you feel alone, someone to come home to, someone to make things brighter even if it's just their company, etc. Now my views are hardly ever the norm, so it should go without saying that all this is perspective on ideas examined from the prism of a human mind. But I can agree that there are many traditions that people may leave behind and would be better for it. After all there are many archetypes people and systems I tend to look upon with unfavorable thoughts, so I'm not one to try and say somethings perfect when the concept of perfection is so abstract it might as well just be opinion. And I'm done rambling. I said I'd respond and I did. Now hopefully sleep will come to me. Hopefully very soon, I have a doctor's appointment in the morning.
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Post by The Big Cheese on Feb 19, 2014 15:04:42 GMT -6
I know what it's like to feel trapped in a situation. Right now I'm living in the middle of nowhere with no money and no vehicle, two heavily indebted parents, and I left my job in the best economy Canada has to offer with no prospects of staying and because I couldn't stand being away from all of my friends for so long. If I were to go to school, I'd need a job for food and shelter. If I were to go find skilled labor, I'd need a job to save money for food and shelter. And I've been turned down hundreds of times, usually because of my appearance (apparently even clean shaven and in semi-formal clothes I look "dangerous.") The biggest barrier to my success is my own inhibition. I'm afraid to take up producing written or video content online even though I'd be interested in doing it because I don't want to commit to something that may or may not end up earning me a liveable wage. I'm afraid to go to school on a loan because I don't want to spend thousands of dollars I don't have on something that might not turn out.
I can't speak for your experiences, but I'll bet it's the same general idea. You could do something useful if you tried, you could even change the world. You just need to preach a message, be creative or take a risk. I don't want to be your mom and tell you you can be and do anything if you just believe, that's annoying as hell, I know (and to be fair, you're telling me that love can be worth the hardship, so we're kinda even.) But our moms have a point, dude. It ain't as easy as she makes it sound, but people have dug their way out of fifty feet below rock bottom, so the least you or I could do is try.
I'd like to respond to your part about the positive side of divorce. It is an expression of freedom, and I don't hate my parents for doing it. But saying anything else will probably devolve the rant into something far more angry than I'd want to get with you. I will set aside my biggest issue, and that's your justifying the overwhelming favour to women in divorce courts with the notion that the few fathers who may be abusive or predatory are worth prejudging the rest for. Ask yourself if you'd give the same excuse if mothers were the overwhelming majority of parents alienated from their children.
Oh, but my inner MRA is showing again, plus I think I hear empireoffire yelling at me from America to start RPing. tl;dr, don't let my deep rooted issues bother you. I'm the last person who will go trying to prevent anybody but myself from doing anything.
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Post by Golurkcanfly on Feb 19, 2014 19:23:28 GMT -6
Been playing Zone of the Enders.
I thought I was 1/3 of the way through, but turns out I beat the final boss.
It was so short, and it was easier than the earlier boss.
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Post by SwordMasterEX on Feb 19, 2014 19:46:50 GMT -6
Are you positive we are not the same person? Dude when I first moved to Arizona I needed to carry my papers just because xenophobes thought I was illegal and dangerous (By which they meant drug smuggler). I only finally found a job because my boss was nice enough to give me a shot. Which luckily also had healthcare benefits. Although part of the reason I don't try harder in college is my low self esteem and multitude of nervous ticks.
Also I was not justifying the practice, just saying that sometimes the bias isn't the only reason. I personally find mother's always winning custody to be bull****. Also, also I may just be trying to perpetuate this conversation because it's the longest interaction we've had in months, and I may or may not be going through some stuff right now and want to talk to someone that can relate. So you're not the only one with issues and strong opinions.
Now back on topic, who's everyone's favorite Nymph so far? I personally have a soft spot for Jet.
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Post by Golurkcanfly on Feb 19, 2014 19:50:37 GMT -6
Pearl-chama for me.
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Post by SwordMasterEX on Feb 19, 2014 20:17:17 GMT -6
Ninjas!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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Post by Golurkcanfly on Feb 19, 2014 20:19:30 GMT -6
I even edited my picture in the time it took for you to post!
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Post by SwordMasterEX on Feb 19, 2014 20:24:22 GMT -6
I'm hunting Zapados dude. The motha f**** is slippery, and I'm about to go play the Strider demo, so I might take awhile longer with the next one as well.
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Post by GX1997 on Feb 19, 2014 21:16:11 GMT -6
A ninja is in our midst. Good thing I already edited my post.
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Post by Golurkcanfly on Feb 19, 2014 21:20:59 GMT -6
It would've worked fine without the edit anyways. Also, GX, you know those sprites I showed you earlier? Those are hints towards the sci-fi character idea I had that I'm going to use whenever we do one in a few months or whenever. Anyways, why is your profile pic so cute? I just see it and my heart melts, and if I was a female, I'd be going "d'awwwwwwwww..."
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Post by GX1997 on Feb 19, 2014 21:36:50 GMT -6
It would've worked fine without the edit anyways. Also, GX, you know those sprites I showed you earlier? Those are hints towards the sci-fi character idea I had that I'm going to use whenever we do one in a few months or whenever. Anyways, why is your profile pic so cute? I just see it and my heart melts, and if I was a female, I'd be going "d'awwwwwwwww..." Play Tales of the Abyss, and prepare for cuteness overload when you see an entire village of cheagles like Mieu. So. Dang. Cute. Although I sound like Tear when I talk about how cute they are.
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Post by The Big Cheese on Feb 19, 2014 21:40:33 GMT -6
SwordMasterEXI was probably just a bit too quick to come to that conclusion. And yeah, apparently I look like I sell crack or something. Nice knowing I have a +2 to my intimidate check, but it's a bit damaging to the ol' ego when the common reaction from a girl just noticing my presence is to let out a little scream and walk faster. I don't know why they bother. The chase is half the fun. :X *shot* My favorite nymph is currently Rhea. She's basically Scathach and Vivian do the fusion dance, f***ing a vampire and a dragon at the same time. What's not to love? It would've worked fine without the edit anyways. Also, GX, you know those sprites I showed you earlier? Those are hints towards the sci-fi character idea I had that I'm going to use whenever we do one in a few months or whenever. Anyways, why is your profile pic so cute? I just see it and my heart melts, and if I was a female, I'd be going "d'awwwwwwwww..." That thing is a truly vile and disgusting beast. Not only did he cause the genocide of the noble race of ligers, but he even has the gall to make annoying squeaky sounds every time I try to use the sorcerer's ring! Get away from me, thing!
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Post by GX1997 on Feb 19, 2014 21:42:43 GMT -6
SwordMasterEXI was probably just a bit too quick to come to that conclusion. And yeah, apparently I look like I sell crack or something. Nice knowing I have a +2 to my intimidate check, but it's a bit damaging to the ol' ego when the common reaction from a girl just noticing my presence is to let out a little scream and walk faster. I don't know why they bother. The chase is half the fun. :X *shot* My favorite nymph is currently Rhea. She's basically Scathach and Vivian do the fusion dance, f***ing a vampire and a dragon at the same time. What's not to love? It would've worked fine without the edit anyways. Also, GX, you know those sprites I showed you earlier? Those are hints towards the sci-fi character idea I had that I'm going to use whenever we do one in a few months or whenever. Anyways, why is your profile pic so cute? I just see it and my heart melts, and if I was a female, I'd be going "d'awwwwwwwww..." That thing is a truly vile and disgusting beast. Not only did he cause the genocide of the noble race of ligers, but he even has the gall to make annoying squeaky sounds every time I try to use the sorcerer's ring! Get away from me, thing! You heartless replica.
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Post by Golurkcanfly on Feb 19, 2014 21:46:53 GMT -6
I just decided to watch the Tales of the Abyss anime, but I can't get past the fact that all the streaming sites that I've found it on have it in terribly low quality. Then again, I haven't checked on Crunchyroll.
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Post by GX1997 on Feb 19, 2014 21:48:33 GMT -6
I just decided to watch the Tales of the Abyss anime, but I can't get past the fact that all the streaming sites that I've found it on have it in terribly low quality. Then again, I haven't checked on Crunchyroll. You can play the actual game on the 3DS. That's how I play it. I've never watched the anime.
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Post by SwordMasterEX on Feb 19, 2014 22:28:02 GMT -6
So Golurk can we organize something with Professor Alto hiring Hamon to investigate her portal off the record as to get Cheese involved with the castle?
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Post by Golurkcanfly on Feb 19, 2014 22:30:12 GMT -6
Sure.
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